Modesty is not hidden in Hijab, but modesty is to RESPECT the women and their choices.
The Western world is the most modest, as it educates men to RESPECT women and their choices.
Muslim men are super frustrated. And the main reason is restrictions upon natural interaction between men and women in the name of the Hijab and Islamic modesty.
Not showing men women's bodies is only going to make them fetishize the tiniest detail they do get to see. If women's bodies were treated normally, men would get used to them and not fetishize every tiny part of them. The same is true if you don't let men talk and interact with women. It will never allow them to understand women and their feelings and how to deal with them respectfully.
Let us see some incidents as under.
Tahrir Square (Egypt) Incident:
This one video is enough to see the sexual frustration among the Muslim masses due to unnatural restrictions in the name of Hijab and modesty.
According to this UNO report, 99% of Egyptian Women have been sexually harassed, although the majority of Egyptian women take Hijab and Niqab. Actually, they even make small girls take Hijab too, but those small girls were also sexually harassed by Egyptian Muslim men.
Sexual harassment is a widespread and serious problem in Egypt, as the country ranks second in the world after Afghanistan in terms of this issue. Also, the research “Study on Ways and Methods to Eliminate Sexual Harassment in Egypt” carried out by UN Women in 2013 revealed that over 99.3 % of Egyptian girls and women surveyed reported experiencing some form of sexual harassment in their lifetime. According to the same study 82.6 percent of the total female respondents did not feel safe or secure in the street. The percentage increased to 86.5 percent with regard to safety and security in public transportation.
Muslim Women are abused and harassed by Muslim men during the most spiritual Hajj and 'Umra gatherings
There are thousands of stories, told by Muslim girls, about how they were harassed by Muslim men during Hajj and 'Umra, due to the combined gathering of women and men (link). Yes, this is only one instance where Muslim men and women have a combined gathering.
Please read the testimonies of Hijabi women here, how they were molested during Hajj.
Hajj and 'Umra are the most spiritual Muslim gatherings. And even if such a spiritual place and event could not keep men in check from showing sexual frustration, then it is only due to the unnatural restrictions of Islam upon the interaction of men and women in name of the Hijab and Islamic modesty.
What Muslims do during the gathering of Hajj, that we non-Muslims don't do even during the gathering of Discos, although we are doing music and dance in discos. Islam claims that music and dance are Haram while they bring humans towards the dark side of Satan. But contrary to the claim of Islam, the truth is that music and dance don't make us become such sexually frustrated animals as Muslims are during the Hajj gatherings.
'I never told anyone: 5 women's stories of sexual abuse at the Hajj [CNN]
Incest in Islamic Pakistan
Due to unnatural restrictions upon the women, and upon their interaction with the men, the Islamic society has gone to that extent of sexual frustration, where in 82% of cases, the child girls are raped by their close relatives like fathers, grandfathers, paternal uncles, maternal uncles, brothers, and cousins.
Please watch the video below, where Miss Shandana Gulzar (Member of the National Assembly of Pakistan from the ruling party PTI) is telling about Research, which was done in hospitals and gynaecologist clinics, which revealed these figures. Please use captions to see the English Translation.
But on social media, Pakistanis reacted very negatively (and stupidly) against Miss Shandana Gulzar for highlighting this evil in society. They blamed her for being a western agent, who was giving false figures in order to give a bad name to Islam and Pakistan. They wanted the authorities to send her to prison and a death sentence against her for insulting the religion and the country.
Actually, this sexual frustration is very much evident from a large number of cases of rape of small children in the Madrassas (Quran schools). And if girls have to go outside, then they are molested on a large scale by the men.
At least the sexual frustration in Madrassas and on the road is reported in the media, nevertheless, the incest rapes inside the houses are absolutely not reported. Pakistan needs are very strong “Feminist Movement” in order to come over these evils.
Even 'Google Trend' is also a witness to the incest trend in Pakistan
Pakistanis are at the top for the last 2 decades in search of incest terms like:
Till the time Pakistanis are not going to give freedom to their women and make natural interaction possible between women and men, their whole society (mostly the small children) is going to pay the price for this extreme sexual frustration.
This frustration among Pakistani men has gone to that level, where even the dead bodies of women are taken out of their graves, and they are raped (link). And there are reports that it went to that extent where the relatives of the dead women were guarding their graves for the first couple of nights in the graveyards.
2.5 million illegal abortions in Pakistan in one year
The famous organization "Population Council" published a report (link) of their research, that alone in the year 2012, there were 2.5 million illegal abortions which took place in Pakistan.
Please once again listen to the interview of Miss Shandana Gulzar, who is telling that hospitals and Gynaecologist clinics witness how mothers of raped child girls are refusing to register a case with the police, while their own husbands or fathers or brothers or sons are involved in the rape of child girls.
Sexual frustration pushing young Muslims in the UK to join ISIS
Please read the full story here.
Young boys should be taught to respect women regardless of what they're wearing.
They should also NOT be segregated away from girls their own age. Growing up together results in mutual empathy so that the young men wouldn't even want to lower themselves in their own eyes by doing something inappropriate.