In his youtube video [Feminism Destroys Family dated: 8.04.2023], Daniel claims:
If the woman is outside of the home you have to Outsource things like upbringing of children modern model of life children being shipped off to this institution of schooling in general this fundamentally creates problems for the family structure because people are spending most of their time with strangers and when you do that family bonds weaken people tend to have more of a connection and loyalty and love towards people that they spend more of their time with.
Women should do whatever they want and whatever they have to do. Meaning if she can and wants to be a stay at home mom, go for it. If she wants to work or have to work then no problem. That's not going to affect the child/children negatively whatsoever:
There are countless benefits to being raised by working women (Scientific Study)
What is most critical for her to do is to prioritise motherhood for the first 2-3years. This includes the father! The mother should stay with the child as much as physically possible during this time. Her job should give her atleast 1-2 years off and 1-2 years part time/modified. After this, this prioritisation should continue in a more structured/scheduled fashion until the kid grows up. The mother shouldn't have to stay at home! That's bullshit.
Why prioritizing motherhood in first 3 years is critical
How Long to Stay Home with Baby
Moreover:
Firstly, men also go to work. Does it break the bond between fathers and children?
Secondly, Muslim men had 4 wives and dozens of slave women for sex purposes, and then dozens of children from them. They saw their children after long periods of time. Did that break the bond between them and their children? If not, how the mother/child bond is going to break if the mother goes to work?
Thirdly, Islam broke the families of male and female slaves. Islam has the evil of “Slavery by Birth”. And when a baby has 2 teeth (6 to 8 months), then the owner can separate the baby and sell the child or slave mother, or both in the Islam Bazaars of slavery.
Imam Abdullah Ibn Abi Zayd wrote in his Maliki Fiqh Book Risala:
ولا يفرق بين الام وولدها في البيع حتى يثغر
A slave-mother and her baby could not be separated from each other and sold (in the Bazars of slavery) till the baby has his second tooth.
As far as the father (i.e. male slave) is concerned, then he can be sold by the owner whenever he wishes.
Allah/Muhammad also allowed the master to snatch away the wife of his slave, and to start raping her, thus destroying the whole slave family.
Sahih Bukhari, 5105:
وَقَالَ أَنَسٌ: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} ذَوَاتُ الأَزْوَاجِ الْحَرَائِرُ حَرَامٌ إِلاَّ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ لاَ يَرَى بَأْسًا أَنْ يَنْزِعَ الرَّجُلُ جَارِيَتَهُ مِنْ عَبْدِهِ.
Anas said: The meaning of the Quranic verse: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} Married free women are forbidden to you except your married slave women that your right hands possess. There is no harm in a man (i.e the owner) taking his female slave (for himself) from his male slave.
Unbelievable!
PS: Slave women in Islam are always working for their masters and cannot stay with their children at home.
Hassan Radwan
